Told me that my ex-boyfriend before him had used me
Told me that his mother, brother and aunt never liked me anyway
Told his friends I didn’t treat him well and that’s why we broke up (not true)
Told his roommates about my sex life, subsequently they called me hoe, slut, skank
None of his friends (who were my friends too for four years) will even look me in the eye
Contacted a fiancé of my friend (who he only knows through me, and who he barely talks to) to talk about how bad the break up was – three months after the break up
When I started dating someone new he accused me of making him look like a fool and showing people that he was not worth getting over when he was also dating someone at the exact same time
Let his friends blog about a warped version of our relationship, and then left a comment “You’ve got it right on”
THE TRUTH
Had an ongoing problem with erectile dysfunction, and that’s why I hated having sex with him
Had horrible tasting sperm, and that’s another reason why I hated having sex with him
When I told him that I wanted to use a condom during oral sex he refused
I did my best to compromise for him, while my friends said I was a saint
He never once told me, or even hinted, that I didn’t treat him well or that I made him unhappy